The Redo Love Method™

Choose yourself first,
watch love follow.

You understand your attachment patterns. This is the work of changing how you respond.

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Flora Ong speaking with a microphone in a tailored suit

This is for you if

You know
the pattern.

You keep
repeating it.

  • You understand why you’re drawn to someone who pulls away, but still check your phone, question yourself or try harder when their attention changes.
  • You want closeness, but find yourself withdrawing when someone starts to matter.
  • You know what you’re doing, but find it difficult to respond differently.
  • You want to explore the subconscious beliefs and conditioning behind these responses, including feelings or needs you learned to dismiss.
  • You’re ready for guided subconscious reprogramming and experiential work, with the aim of responding differently and changing what you accept in relationships.

The method

Reveal. Release.
Reprogram. Rebuild.

01

Reveal

Identify the attachment patterns influencing your choices and reactions. Explore what you believe about your needs, your worth and what might happen if you express yourself.

02

Release

Work with the feelings and beliefs associated with hiding your needs, overgiving or pulling away. Make room to acknowledge parts of yourself you have learned to reject.

03

Reprogram

Use guided subconscious and experiential work to develop different responses to closeness, uncertainty and your own needs.

04

Rebuild

Practice expressing yourself, respecting your boundaries and making relationship choices you can trust. Apply the work to the situations you encounter in your life.

My mission

Flora Ong smiling in a tan blazer

You’ve learned to
explain the pattern.

Now work with
what keeps it
repeating.

My mission is to help you change your life from the inside out, so you can love and be loved as yourself. To change the beliefs that shape what you expect from love, what you settle for and what you believe you deserve.

We work with the earlier experiences and conditioning behind your responses today. Through guided subconscious reprogramming and experiential work, you can begin to relate differently to feelings and needs you once had to dismiss. The person you are now can make choices that the younger you did not have.

I believe the significance of that change extends beyond one relationship. When you change how you respond to conflict, express love and respect your own needs, you can interrupt patterns you learned in your family rather than repeat them in the relationships you create. This is the depth of change I care about: a different experience of yourself, of love and of what your life can become.

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“I have made peace with my past hurts. I also gained more insights on my self sabotaging behaviors and just learning to act differently when such situations arise.”
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Experience the work

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free masterclass.

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