Dating and relationship coaching

Choose yourself first,
watch love follow.

I’m Flora Ong, a dating and relationship coach focused on attachment styles. I work with successful, self-aware people who understand their relationship patterns but still find themselves repeating them.

Work with me ↗Discover the Redo Love Method™ →

01 / MASTERCLASS

YOU’VE FIGURED OUT SO MUCH.

Successful in life.
Struggling in love?

You came to the right place.

Discover the
hidden pattern
blocking the
relationship
you want.

Start with my free masterclass to explore the relationship patterns you want to change and learn more about my approach.

Get free access ↗

02 / PATTERN MAP

Your personalizedPattern Map

Attachment Style Quiz

Six attachment distinctions, instead of four. This quiz goes beyond the four broad attachment styles to explore six distinct relationship patterns. Identify how you respond to closeness, uncertainty and connection, and get a more personal understanding of the patterns you want to change.

Take the free quiz ↗Get your Pattern Map — $27 ↗

Start with the free quiz to identify your pattern. Choose the $27 Pattern Map to go deeper and get a personalized strategy.

REDO LOVEATTACHMENT QUIZ

The Pattern Map

A closer look at how you relate.

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Six distinctions.
Your relationship patterns explained, with a personalized strategy on how to move forward.

A client’s experience

“Her kind and honest mentorship created a safe place for me to explore challenging and vulnerable parts of myself.”

Angela · Redo Love program

03 / ABOUT ME

Meet Flora Ong, dating and relationship coach

Through the Redo Love Method™, I work with the subconscious beliefs and learned responses that influence how you relate to yourself and others. The aim is to help you trust yourself, express your needs and make relationship choices that reflect who you are.

Private coaching is offered online in English, for clients across the US and internationally.

My method & mission ↗

04 / THE REDO LOVE METHOD™

You know
what you want.
Understand why
you keep choosing
otherwise.

I developed the Redo Love Method to work with the subconscious beliefs and conditioning behind your relationship patterns. We explore what you learned to believe about yourself, the feelings and needs you dismiss, and the responses you want to change. Guided subconscious reprogramming is central to this work.

Explore the method, explore the mission ↗

05 / WORK WITH ME

Stop making their availability a measure of your worth.

Work with Flora one-to-one

Private coaching

We work together one on one, navigating your subconscious belief system and the conditioning behind your relationship patterns. Through guided subconscious work, we explore the beliefs behind your automatic responses and practice expressing what you feel and need.

Explore private coaching ↗

A client’s experience